Monday, May 31, 2004

Disclosure....

A good friend of mine reacted badly on a post I made last March 22 entitled 'My love affair..'. I gess it was bad enough for me that i am now about to make a revelation i promised myself i wont. If you have read the post i am referring to, you would kinda know why this friend of mine reacted so.

When i wrote the post, I already anticipated what people will have in mind. But i posted it anyways. I told myself, why would I even have to care what thoughts they might have about me especially now that I'm getting married. My only concern then was how would Richard might have reacted. To my surprise he knew and understood what I was referring to. I asked him if it was ok for him knowing people will get to read the post and again, what thoughts they would have of me. He said it's up to me, it was my blog anyways.. plus he didn't mind because we both know what meaning hides inside the story.

So going back to this friend of mine.. the first time she read it, she only told me she liked how i wrote it. After several months, out of nowhere, she blurted out.. That she's concerned about Richard and that she doesn't think it's a good idea that i have 'my love affair' posted for public material.. I knew my friend fairly enough that I had to bring myself to explain to her.. I know it would bother her once in a while. So I did tell her..

Perhaps the disclosure would for now remain restricted to me, Richard and this friend of mine. But only to play fair, I will have to tell you that sometimes, writings go beyond what your comprehension reach. If you try to read between the lines, you may open your eyes to the bear truth that there was in the writers heart and mind and to her pen (in this case, her blog).